Personalize-then-Store: Benchmarking and Learning Personalized Memory for Long-horizon Agents

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This paper introduces PerMemBench, the first benchmark for evaluating personalized memory systems in LLM-based agents, and proposes a session-level storage gating framework that adapts memory policies to individual user contexts.

Existing large language model (LLM) based memory systems apply universal, static policies that overlook a fundamental reality: the contexts that are worth storing in memory are different across users. This misalignment wastes limited memory budget on transient interactions while failing to preserve critical context for long horizon tasks. To address this gap, we investigate an underexplored question: can LLM based memory systems learn personalized memory policies? We introduce PerMemBench, the first benchmark for evaluating personalized memory systems, featuring multi year, multi domain interaction histories across diverse user personas. We further present the first empirical study of memory personalization, proposing session level storage gating, a lightweight framework that selectively bypasses memory operations for transient sessions. Our study confirms that personalization yields substantial retention gains under perfect gating, yet reveals that accurate gating remains an open and critical challenge.
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Large language model-based memory systems can benefit from personalized policies that adapt to individual user contexts, though accurate implementation remains challenging.

Existinglarge language model(LLM) basedmemory systemsapply universal, static policies that overlook a fundamental reality: the contexts that are worth storing in memory are different across users. This misalignment wastes limitedmemory budgetontransient interactionswhile failing to preserve critical context forlong horizon tasks. To address this gap, we investigate an underexplored question: can LLM basedmemory systemslearnpersonalized memory policies? We introducePerMemBench, the first benchmark for evaluating personalizedmemory systems, featuring multi year, multi domain interaction histories across diverse user personas. We further present the first empirical study of memory personalization, proposingsession level storage gating, a lightweight framework that selectively bypasses memory operations for transient sessions. Our study confirms that personalization yields substantial retention gains under perfect gating, yet reveals that accurate gating remains an open and critical challenge.

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